If we share a common humanity what matters in terms of how language is used is not what we think is affirming or hurtful BUT how those being addressed, or described, receive what is being said.
If I feel affirmed or put down by how I am named or described that is real for me, however the person addressing me feels about what they are saying.
Empathy and listening is needed before we condemn changes in language that we might see as ‘fashionable’ or unnecessary.
All of this ought to apply to our day to day conversation as we recognise the common humanity we share with one another, whatever name, creed, gender, orientation, self-identification or other criteria.
It is equally important in public documents and conversation, politically, in religious worship and in every other sphere
A time to reconsider – inspired by Matthew 4:12-23
1 A time to reconsider, to pause, to reassess; when crisis comes with challenge, how can God come to bless? And yet a light is shining, we cannot understand that at this time of turning God sharpens what we planned.
2 As Jesus felt the tension, while John slept in a cell, the challenge was beginning and he would sound the knell. Now in our time the echo reverberates with fear, and will we face our challenge of bringing justice near?
3 To face the grief and sorrow, to live with scorn and hate, to live love undiluted before it is too late? A time to reconsider, to pause, to reassess; when crisis comes with challenge, how can God come to bless?
Within the temple's shaking frame – Calling and Vocation – the first disciples
1 Within the temple's shaking frame, Isaiah heard a call, that sought commitment through a vow that he would give his all. The gospel message that he heard, apostles heard again within another time and age. God's call was not in vain;
2 For Jesus standing by a lake amazed the men who fished, then challenged them to move beyond all that they hoped or wished. And now we stand before you God, in our own time and place, so give us courage and the nerve to trust surprising grace.
3 To go beyond our place and time, encompassed in your care, to know however hard the call your love will find us there. Amazed by grace and stunned by awe that brings us to our knees, we rise within the hope of God that strengthens, loves and frees.